I'd rather email you, personally, my reaction and more detailed comments. But, briefly, here, Monica, you have been one of the great moderators consistently demonstrating love, dedication and reason. There's not a micrometer of bad that I could say about you. I hope that in time you will be able to shed your anger and hurt. You can't convince others that you're right nor that they should apologize, when they really don't care to. Instead, maybe, forgive them without reason. You'll be better off. Best of luck in all your endeavors.

@MonicaCellio Oy. Thanks for the reminder.

I have to admit ... this is definitely not an answer. OP asked why the flagging "not an answer" leaves things as an answer, and all you've done here is apologize. I also am apologizing for my having to offer my opinion :-) But, I'm not flagging your answer, because I'm being nice.

I guess you're really starting the Purim laughs early. I see ads for hotel vacations for Rosh Hashanna 2019 (Hmmm ... didn't that occur in January??) and Pesach 2020. But, I have yet to see a hotel ad for Shavuot 2019. I wonder if that's because there is no calendar date for Shavuot?

I hate to burst your pre-Purim euphoria but ... since when is Purim based on the Gregorian calendar?

I see that I already upvoted this answer a while ago, and boy, am I happy that in about 3 years, no one has asked me why. But, while I find good constructive comments useful (though, not always helpful, admittedly,) to me, the bottom line is this is just another web site. (Moderators, don't get offended by that!) We're all anonymous, here (though I wouldn't mind meeting a few of you to tell you what I really think ;-) My point is - if someone wants to vote either positive or negative, I'm not emotionally attached to a cyber-number in any significant way. I can't figure why anyone would be.

Curious - I didn't pay attention to what you do during leap years, such as this one, where there are 13 months. Did you make each quarter 3.25 months long, or you placed both Adars in the 2nd quarter?

The first is somewhat funny; the 2nd i s"cute" but weird. I don't like weed, but, I have to ask my friend if she's ever tried that recipe. The 3rd is a total loser question.

Believe it or not, some people would consider the association of Jews with gefilte fish as a "racist" stereotype. Akin to assuming that all blacks eat watermelon. Personally not only am I not offended if someone assumed that about me and I don't quite follow what's racist about it. But, apparently, it is for many people.

@DonielF Add it to the list, please. (It seems that this "contest" is fizzling.